Proposing to your loved one can be fun – planning the surprise, making the arrangements – and then finally popping the question.
Before you drop a ring in his champagne, make sure you stand a fighting chance of him saying ‘yes’. Here are a few ways of ensuring that he jumps up in joy when you pop the question... When to propose...
The relationship’s great; you sense equal commitment on both sides and you have all the skills to make a further commitment really work.
You yourself have the energy to create a brilliant event to mark your engagement . You’d love to do it, and love to see your beloved’s face when you pop the question.
You’ve both discussed marriage and established a basic agreement that you’re up for it. Actually, the proposal is a formality – you both know that whoever makes it, the answer will be yes.
How to do it right
A great proposal should be memorable. You want to feel good whenever you remember it – and be able to tell the story to your children and grandchildren.
A memorable proposal also needs to be based on knowledge of your partner and what he or she would truly like. As you’re making all the decisions here, make them with him in mind – however tempted you are to fulfil your own romantic fantasies!
A great proposal is enjoyable. Men in particular can get emotionally overwhelmed – so avoid situations where he might feel vulnerable. Proposing in the middle of an Indo-Pak cricket match is probably not a good idea!
